We're wired for connection. But knowing how you connect changes everything.
Three minutes to understand your connection style — and what it makes possible for the people you love.
Answer as who you actually are. Not who you're trying to become, and not your hardest week. No armor needed here. Just your honest, everyday self.
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This is usually the part people feel and never say out loud.
There's a room where women who connect the way you do actually find each other. Meet the woman who built it, see what's inside, and decide if it's yours. Consider this your invitation in.
A few years ago, I was the loneliest I’d ever been. I’d just moved. Didn’t know a soul. I spent most nights scrolling my phone, wondering why making friends as an adult felt so impossible.
I tried everything — apps, church groups, “putting myself out there.” Nothing stuck. So I did something that felt a little crazy: I started a group chat with five women I barely knew and said, “Hey. I need friends. Real ones. Want to try this together?” That group chat became 12 women. Then 50. Then 500+.
Here’s what I learned: the women starving for connection aren’t the unfriendly ones. They’re the warm, real, busy women who never quite found a room that felt like theirs.
So I built one. And I still welcome and get to know every new member myself. When you walk through this door, you won’t be a number. You’ll be seen.
Cancel anytime. Your Connection Type result is yours to keep, either way.
Small moves. Real shift.
No more forcing it or white-knuckling through. Just one honest first step — for exactly who you are.
A real conversation in your first week. Not months of weather and weekend small talk.
The women who actually get you — not one more acquaintance you wave at and forget.
Dani knows you’re here. You’re a person to her — never a number in a crowd of thousands.
Someone’s here for the hard weeks and the good ones. You don’t have to hold it by yourself.
The year-ten friendships — the ones that outlast whatever season you’re standing in.
The full Bestie Squad community + every connection space
Weekly events & IRL meetups — play dates, farmer’s markets, book swaps
Director-led threads, connection games & monthly challenges
Dani’s daily affirmations + the monthly focus
Your Connection Type track, tips & resource library
Founder presence — Dani shows up, personally, every week
All of it, for $17/month.
$17/mo · cancel anytime · 30-day money-back
“I’ve tried making friends as an adult. It’s just… awkward.”
“Every group chat fizzles out after a week.”
“I can barely keep up with the friends I already have.”
“One more thing on my plate feels impossible.”
“Paying for friends feels a little desperate, honestly.”
“Shouldn’t this just happen naturally?”
“I go quiet in groups. I’ll just end up lurking.”
“Putting myself out there is exhausting.”
“I’ve joined communities and never opened them again.”
“What would make this any different?”
“Everyone already has their people.”
“It feels too late to start over.”
Every woman here felt at least one of these first. She walked in anyway — and found she wasn’t the only one.
You won’t be dropped into a crowd and left to fend for yourself. Every woman is welcomed by name and pointed toward the people she’ll actually click with.
Your first real conversation happens in week one — not someday.
No calls, no homework, no video. You show up from your couch, on your own schedule.
We’re so excited you’re here — and we want this to be the right room for you. So joining works a little differently than hitting “subscribe”:
Hold your spot — $0 today. A card on file through our secure checkout holds your place in this month’s intake. You’re not charged anything today.
Tell us about you. You get a seat in our welcome space right away, and we’ll send a few get-to-know-you questions. Dani reads every answer herself — it’s how she makes sure the squad is the right fit for you, not just the other way around.
Your 30 days begin. When it’s a fit — usually within a few days — Dani welcomes you in personally. That’s when your $17/month starts, and your 30-day money-back guarantee with it. If it turns out this isn’t your room right now, your card is never charged. Ever.
The Bestie Squad will never be a feed of a thousand strangers. It’s small on purpose — small enough that Dani knows every woman by name, small enough that you’re actually seen. That intimacy is the whole point, and it’s why only so many can come in at a time. When a month fills, the door closes until the next one opens. So if it’s open for you today, come while there’s room.
Cancel anytime.
Try it for 30 days. If it’s not your room, one email gets you a full refund — no questions.
PS — Join today and Dani will know your name before the day is done. That’s what staying small makes possible.
Real women, real events, a founder who actually shows up. Not a feed to scroll — a room to belong to.
Limited spots each month · $17/mo · 30-day money-back