Bestie ★ Squad
The Connection Type Quiz

What kind of connector
are you?

We're wired for connection. But knowing how you connect changes everything.

Your result shows how you make friends, why some drift, and what to try next. That's what The Bestie Squad is about: real friendship, in real life.

Free · 10 questions · Your result in 3 minutes

What you'll get

  1. Your type, out of fourSpark, Beam, Flame or Glow, plus the one you lean toward.
  2. Your strength and your shadow sideWhat people feel with you, and the pattern that quietly gets in the way.
  3. Three things to try this weekSmall moves for your type, to make a new friend or get closer to one.

Plus where you are in friendship right now, and a card to share with friends.

Answer as who you actually are. Not who you're trying to become, and not your hardest week. No armor needed here. Just your honest, everyday self.

Dani, founder of The Bestie Squad, in a smiley tee
Bestie Squad women in matching smiley bomber jackets together at a restaurant.

Meet the four types

  • SparkFast trust · Outward"You lead with your whole heart — fast, and out loud."
  • BeamSlow trust · Outward"You make the room where everyone else gets to belong."
  • FlameFast trust · Inward"You don't do shallow. When you're in, you're all the way in."
  • GlowSlow trust · Inward"You're not flashy. You're forever."
Bestie ★ Squad
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Question 01

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Where should we send your result?

Drop your email and we'll send your connection type now — plus a few notes from Dani on what to do with it.

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Reading the data

Calculating

Your Connection Type
SPARK

Fast Trust
Inward
🔥
Flame
✦
Spark
✻
Glow
✳
Beam
Outward
Slow Trust

★ Your invitation in

$17/month · first 14 days free · cancel anytime · 250+ women already inside

★ Your Strength

Your Shadow Side

This is usually the part people feel and never say out loud.

Right Now, You're In
★ Yours to keep · Three things to try this week

Small moves. Real shift.

    From the squad
    Becca Cluff, Bestie Squad member, smiling in a red top
    Becca CluffBestie Squad member

    “…I was nervous to attend my first Bestie event, but Dani was so happy I came, even though it had been five years since we had seen each other! That gave me the courage to introduce myself to other women - everyone was so friendly and welcoming. … No matter what stage of life you are in, there is a Bestie who can relate. Come join the squad!”

    Read Becca’s full story

    “Joining the Bestie Squad gave me something to look forward to when I was moving to a new city and leaving a place with many dear friends. I was nervous to attend my first Bestie event, but Dani was so happy I came, even though it had been five years since we had seen each other! That gave me the courage to introduce myself to other women - everyone was so friendly and welcoming. I have met so many genuinely kind women since joining, some of whom have become new dear friends. These women have even opened their arms to embrace my daughters! My girls feel the sincerity in the love from the Besties. No matter what stage of life you are in, there is a Bestie who can relate. Come join the squad!”

    Paige Erickson, Bestie Squad member, smiling in a cream sweater
    Paige EricksonBestie Squad member

    “In the Bestie Squad, I met new friends, some of whom immediately came to introduce themselves and embraced me in hugs. There are SO many activities available-- way more than I could possibly attend. I've developed wonderful friendship with ladies of all ages and in all stages of life. It's so wonderful that we can all find things in common and connect in different ways.”

    Clerissa Lewis, Bestie Squad member, smiling in a black top
    Clerissa LewisBestie Squad member

    “…They’ve become my people, my cheerleaders, my support system, and the sisters I didn’t even know I needed. … These are the women who show up, who celebrate the little things, who make ordinary moments unforgettable, and who remind you that you never have to do life alone. …”

    Read Clerissa’s full story

    “I originally joined The Bestie Squad to network and make connections for my business I had just started , but I had no idea I was walking into something that would change my life in such a meaningful way. 💙

    Over this past year, I’ve found some of the most incredible women who have become so much more than friends. They’ve become my people, my cheerleaders, my support system, and the sisters I didn’t even know I needed.

    These are the women who show up, who celebrate the little things, who make ordinary moments unforgettable, and who remind you that you never have to do life alone. The friendships I’ve built this past year are some of the strongest and most genuine I’ve ever experienced, and I know they’re the kind that will last a lifetime.

    I may have joined to grow my business, but what I’ve gained is so much more valuable. I’ve found a community, a sisterhood, and friendships I will forever be grateful for.

    Sometimes the best things in life come from simply putting yourself out there and being willing to meet new people. You never know when a new connection will turn into a forever friendship.”

    What's inside

    Here's what you're actually walking into

    Your Daily Squad

    The room where someone notices when you go quiet. Hundreds of women showing up every single day, so when you post, a real woman answers. No bots. No crickets.

    Weekly Virtual Hangouts

    Book clubs, game nights, and come as you are evenings, every week. Pajamas encouraged. Nobody takes attendance and nobody is performing.

    Interest Groups + Meetups

    Your fitness people. Your faith people. Your snack people. Find them online, then go meet them in real life. The only thing you need to bring is genuine curiosity.

    Screenshot: The Bestie Squad community feed on a laptop, with a Daily Affirmation from Dani, upcoming events and trending posts
    Screenshot: The Yummy Recipes space with Dani’s “BESTIE DINNER IDEAS!” post
    Screenshot: Upcoming Bestie Squad events on a phone, with members marked Going or RSVP
    Screenshot: The weekly “Opportunities For Connection This Week!” schedule post, followed by member posts, on a phone
    This is where the Squad lives between meetups: a daily affirmation from Dani, real conversations, and real events members RSVP to. These are real screenshots from inside.
    How it works

    Your free 14 days, step by step

    1. Start your free 14 days. Pop your card in at checkout. Nothing is charged today.

    2. You're in the room right away. Dani reads and vets every application one at a time, so give her a few days to welcome you personally.

    3. Day 15, your membership begins at $17 a month. Cancel before day 15 and you're never charged.

    About the money, so there are no surprises. Your card sits there untouched for your first 14 days. On day 15 your membership begins at $17 a month, unless you've cancelled before then. And if anything is ever charged during your first 14 days, it's refunded.

    $17/month · first 14 days free · cancel anytime · 250+ women already inside

    Dani, founder of The Bestie Squad
    have we met?

    I'm Dani

    I believe every woman deserves a place to belong.

    A few years ago, I was the loneliest I'd ever been. I'd just moved. Didn't know a soul. I spent most nights scrolling my phone, wondering why making friends as an adult felt so impossible.

    I tried everything — apps, church groups, "putting myself out there." Nothing stuck. So I did something that felt a little crazy: I started a group chat with five women I barely knew and said, "Hey. I need friends. Real ones. Want to try this together?" That group chat became 12 women. Then 50. Then 250+.

    Here's what I learned: the women starving for connection aren't the unfriendly ones. They're the warm, real, busy women who never quite found a room that felt like theirs.

    So I built one. And I still welcome and get to know every new member myself. When you walk through this door, you won't be a number. You'll be seen.

    What you're probably wondering

    Will I just be the new girl nobody already knows?

    Every new member gets an introduction post written by Dani before you have said a single word. You walk in already vouched for, already expected, in a room that was told you were coming.

    What if I'm too introverted for this?

    Most of us are, honestly. This room was built for the woman who is tired of mass text energy. You do not have to talk first. You do not have to talk much. You just have to be honest when you do.

    What if it turns into another dead group chat?

    Fair question. There's a director in the threads every day, Dani answering personally, events every week, and 250+ women actually using the room. If it ever goes quiet, that one is ours to fix, not yours.

    Can I cancel anytime?

    Yes. One click. No phone call, no guilt trip, no email begging you to stay.

    Not ready yet?

    That's okay. Stay close.

    Your Connection Type result is yours to keep, either way. Here's how to stay in the loop until it feels right.

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    Come find your people

    There's already a seat with your name on it. 🖤

    $17/month after your free 14 days · cancel before day 15 and you're never charged